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The dictionary defines rare as:

1.  an event, situation, or condition not occurring very often;

2.  a thing not found in large numbers and consequently of interest or value;

3. unusually good or remarkable.

Synonyms or words that mean the same as rare include:  exceptional, outstanding, unparalleled, matchless, unique, unrivaled, inimitable, beyond compare, without equal, second to none, unsurpassed.

Are you aware that you are truly rare?

I love flowers, especially red roses and sunflowers. A few months ago, someone gave me a dozen red roses. I quickly put them on my dining room table. I looked at those flowers and admired their beauty for days. But as time went on, the flowers began to wither and eventually they died. Sure, I will get more red roses, but none will be exactly like the ones I had. No two flowers are same and neither are humans beings.

There will never be anyone exactly like you and I ever again. So if we don't allow ourselves to shine NOW, then there will be no other time in history for it to happen. Sure there will be others coming after us, but there will never be another you or me. We are truly once in a lifetime creations!

OYA CHALLENGE

My challenge to you is to fully embrace that you are rare, beyond compare, unique--not occurring again. Create a new affirmation that confirms that you are rare!

Start really understanding what it means to be special, a real masterpiece, and yes...amazing. Start being aware that your talents and abilities are unique and special. So own it now, so others can benefit from this rare phenomenal called YOU!

 

Until Next Time...

Dr. Denise,

The Self Discovery Expert™

 

 

 

A few years ago, I drove an All-Terrain Vehicle (ATV) while in Playa Del Carmen, Mexico. It was my first time driving an ATV!  ATV's are designed to be able to handle any kind of terrain or road conditions. I have to admit it, the terrain was a little challenging at times and it made me think twice about why I decided to take on this adventure. But as you can see from the picture, I'm smiling and having a good time.

Life is full of ups and downs, ins and outs, and wins and losses. But at times we forget that we are stronger, smarter, more talented, and resourceful than we give ourselves credit for. As you look at your life, you will see that you were able to handle so tough situations. You made it over the rough spots. You have some major wins under your belt.

So, how did you make it through some of life's most difficult challenges?

I believe that just like an ATV, you were built to handle the difficult terrains. I believe you were created to do defy the impossible and to overcome the unimaginable. As you continue to confirm that you are amazing, you will continue to defy the odds, overcome challenges, and shine brighter than before.

OYA CHALLENGE

 I challenge you to approach life's challenges being certain that you can handle them. Write down your 3 best tips for getting over rough challenges in life.

Remember, there's nothing that you can't handle or overcome.

Until next time...

Dr. Denise,

The Self Discovery Expert™

I work with young children and I  use a variety of toys like, Logos, board games, and especially puzzles. When the children and I finish playing the games or puzzles, I try to be mindful about putting all the pieces back in the box. But somehow some of the pieces don't make it back in the proper boxes. To say I get highly annoyed when I go to play a game or do a puzzle and pieces are missing would be an understatement.

I have some really cool puzzles that my young clients love. There are a few puzzles that have one or two pieces missing. Of course I can never remember which puzzles have the missing pieces. It's not until the child and I get to the end of the puzzle do I realize that a piece is missing! I know what you're thinking...just get rid of the puzzles with the missing pieces!

You are the missing piece for a lot of people. There are people who need you to come out of the shadows and starting shining. You are the missing piece that will help others to live their lives more fully. There are literally thousands of people who are waiting for you to offer your talents and brilliance. But when you don't step up and step out and share your gifts, others miss out. Remember that you are needed. There are those who want what you have to offer.

OYA CHALLENGE

My challenge to you is to start offering your gifts and talents to help others. It can be something big or small. I know it will make a difference in someone's life. Let me know what you decide to do!

Until next time...

 

Dr. Denise,

The Self Discovery Expert™

 

 P.S. Doing a puzzle is fun. What's even better is when all the puzzle pieces are there and you can see the whole picture...like on the box. I have another challenge...go do a puzzle! Take a picture of it, so I can see if any pieces are missing!